The Season of The Crone - Finding Peace Within
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This time of year is one of my favorites. Even as a child I enjoyed daylight savings and the shorter days. Even then, I felt like I had permission from Mother Nature to slow down and cozy up inside. As an adult, it seems as though life never slows down. Or rather capitalism never slows down. I still try my hardest to follow natureβs lead and slow down as much as possible as we move closer to the long winter months.
I think that November, with its crisp air and quiet beauty, is a season deeply connected to the wisdom of the Crone, the third aspect of the Triple Goddess. This sacred archetype represents the wisdom of age, the mystery of endings, and the beauty in letting go. Through the phases of the moon and seasons of the year, the Triple GoddessβMaiden, Mother, and Croneβguides us to reflect, grow, and embrace each stage of life.
The Triple Goddess and the Phases of the Moon
The Triple Goddess is an ancient symbol of feminine energy, representing the Maiden, Mother, and Crone. Each phase reflects a distinct time in a womanβs life and offers a framework for self-growth and spiritual connection. Mirroring the moonβs cycle, these archetypes help us explore our own journey and recognize that life, like the moon, moves in natural cycles of beginning, growth, and release. Read more about connecting with the moon.
The Maiden (New Moon to Waxing Moon): Youth, new beginnings, curiosity, and discovery.
The Mother (Full Moon): Abundance, creativity, nurturing, and fulfillment.
The Crone (Waning Moon to New Moon): Wisdom, transformation, endings, and preparation for renewal.
The Seasonal Reflection of the Triple Goddess
Each season offers a unique opportunity to connect with these archetypes:
Spring to Summer: The Maiden β This is a season of growth and new possibilities, like the young shoots that emerge in the spring.
Summer to Autumn: The Mother β A time of abundance and harvest, mirroring the fullness of life and creation.
Late Autumn to Winter: The Crone β The final stage, a time of rest, reflection, and quiet wisdom. As the days grow shorter and colder, we enter the season of the Crone, a time to turn inward and prepare for new beginnings.
You may also enjoy this book: Maiden, Mother, Crone: The Myth & Reality of the Triple Goddess
November: A Natural Time to Embrace the Croneβs Energy
November, with its bare trees and shorter days, aligns perfectly with the wisdom of the Crone. Nature mirrors the Croneβs lessons as plants release their seeds, animals prepare for winter, and everything slows down. We can feel this cycle within ourselvesβa time to rest, reflect, and prepare for a new season.
The Croneβs energy invites us to:
Reflect on the past year, honoring what weβve achieved and learned.
Let go of old habits, relationships, or expectations that no longer serve us.
Embrace a deeper wisdom, one that recognizes the beauty in endings and transformation.
Embracing the Crone in Your Own Life
How can we connect with the Croneβs energy in practical ways? Here are a few ideas to make the most of Novemberβs quiet wisdom.
1. Practice Introspection
November invites us to go inward, to spend time in quiet reflection. Consider journaling or meditating to connect with your inner self and release thoughts that no longer serve you. Set aside a quiet space where you can be alone with your thoughts.
These beautiful journals are part of my own daily reflection.
2. Release and Let Go
Just as the trees release their leaves, the Crone teaches us to let go. This can mean releasing old habits, beliefs, or even people who no longer fit in your life. Ask yourself: what can I let go of to make space for new growth?
3. Nurture Yourself with Simple Self-Care
Embracing the Crone is also about acknowledging the need for warmth, rest, and grounding activities. Take a gentle walk outdoors and notice the beauty in Novemberβs quiet landscape. Enjoy a warm drink, create something with your hands, or just take time to relax.
The Croneβs Wisdom: Recognizing the Cycles of Life
The wisdom of the Crone isnβt just about age or experience; itβs a reminder that all of life moves in cycles. Nature, the moon, and even our own lives have times of growth and times of release. Embracing this truth can bring a sense of peace and patience, even during tough times.
The Croneβs energy encourages us to stop resisting lifeβs natural ebb and flow, allowing us to release expectationsβwhether from others or from ourselves. If something is not going as planned, this season offers a chance to let go of frustration and make peace with where you are right now.
Finding Strength in Letting Go
The Crone also reminds us that endings are not failures; they are simply part of the cycle of life. By learning to let go, we open ourselves to receive whatever may come next. As you reflect on this season, ask yourself: What do I want in my life right now? What do I need to let go of to make space for it?
The Croneβs season of endings offers an opportunity for transformation. Embrace this time to connect with your own inner wisdom, aligning with natureβs rhythm and finding strength in its cycles.
Hagitude: Imagining the Second Half of Life
Walking in Novemberβs Quiet Beauty
Take a moment to step outside, breathe in the crisp air, and take in the quiet beauty of November. Notice how the trees stand bare, preparing for winterβs rest, and let that remind you of the Croneβs message. Let go of what is no longer needed, make space for quiet wisdom, and embrace this season as an invitation to grow.
How will you embrace the season of the crone in your own life?