The Season of The Crone - Finding Peace Within
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This time of year is one of my favorites. Even as a child I enjoyed daylight savings and the shorter days. Even then, I felt like I had permission from Mother Nature to slow down and cozy up inside. As an adult, it seems as though life never slows down. Or rather capitalism never slows down. I still try my hardest to follow nature’s lead and slow down as much as possible as we move closer to the long winter months.
I think that November, with its crisp air and quiet beauty, is a season deeply connected to the wisdom of the Crone, the third aspect of the Triple Goddess. This sacred archetype represents the wisdom of age, the mystery of endings, and the beauty in letting go. Through the phases of the moon and seasons of the year, the Triple Goddess—Maiden, Mother, and Crone—guides us to reflect, grow, and embrace each stage of life.
The Triple Goddess and the Phases of the Moon
The Triple Goddess is an ancient symbol of feminine energy, representing the Maiden, Mother, and Crone. Each phase reflects a distinct time in a woman’s life and offers a framework for self-growth and spiritual connection. Mirroring the moon’s cycle, these archetypes help us explore our own journey and recognize that life, like the moon, moves in natural cycles of beginning, growth, and release. Read more about connecting with the moon.
The Maiden (New Moon to Waxing Moon): Youth, new beginnings, curiosity, and discovery.
The Mother (Full Moon): Abundance, creativity, nurturing, and fulfillment.
The Crone (Waning Moon to New Moon): Wisdom, transformation, endings, and preparation for renewal.
The Seasonal Reflection of the Triple Goddess
Each season offers a unique opportunity to connect with these archetypes:
Spring to Summer: The Maiden – This is a season of growth and new possibilities, like the young shoots that emerge in the spring.
Summer to Autumn: The Mother – A time of abundance and harvest, mirroring the fullness of life and creation.
Late Autumn to Winter: The Crone – The final stage, a time of rest, reflection, and quiet wisdom. As the days grow shorter and colder, we enter the season of the Crone, a time to turn inward and prepare for new beginnings.
You may also enjoy this book: Maiden, Mother, Crone: The Myth & Reality of the Triple Goddess
November: A Natural Time to Embrace the Crone’s Energy
November, with its bare trees and shorter days, aligns perfectly with the wisdom of the Crone. Nature mirrors the Crone’s lessons as plants release their seeds, animals prepare for winter, and everything slows down. We can feel this cycle within ourselves—a time to rest, reflect, and prepare for a new season.
The Crone’s energy invites us to:
Reflect on the past year, honoring what we’ve achieved and learned.
Let go of old habits, relationships, or expectations that no longer serve us.
Embrace a deeper wisdom, one that recognizes the beauty in endings and transformation.
Embracing the Crone in Your Own Life
How can we connect with the Crone’s energy in practical ways? Here are a few ideas to make the most of November’s quiet wisdom.
1. Practice Introspection
November invites us to go inward, to spend time in quiet reflection. Consider journaling or meditating to connect with your inner self and release thoughts that no longer serve you. Set aside a quiet space where you can be alone with your thoughts.
These beautiful journals are part of my own daily reflection.
2. Release and Let Go
Just as the trees release their leaves, the Crone teaches us to let go. This can mean releasing old habits, beliefs, or even people who no longer fit in your life. Ask yourself: what can I let go of to make space for new growth?
3. Nurture Yourself with Simple Self-Care
Embracing the Crone is also about acknowledging the need for warmth, rest, and grounding activities. Take a gentle walk outdoors and notice the beauty in November’s quiet landscape. Enjoy a warm drink, create something with your hands, or just take time to relax.
The Crone’s Wisdom: Recognizing the Cycles of Life
The wisdom of the Crone isn’t just about age or experience; it’s a reminder that all of life moves in cycles. Nature, the moon, and even our own lives have times of growth and times of release. Embracing this truth can bring a sense of peace and patience, even during tough times.
The Crone’s energy encourages us to stop resisting life’s natural ebb and flow, allowing us to release expectations—whether from others or from ourselves. If something is not going as planned, this season offers a chance to let go of frustration and make peace with where you are right now.
Finding Strength in Letting Go
The Crone also reminds us that endings are not failures; they are simply part of the cycle of life. By learning to let go, we open ourselves to receive whatever may come next. As you reflect on this season, ask yourself: What do I want in my life right now? What do I need to let go of to make space for it?
The Crone’s season of endings offers an opportunity for transformation. Embrace this time to connect with your own inner wisdom, aligning with nature’s rhythm and finding strength in its cycles.
Hagitude: Imagining the Second Half of Life
Walking in November’s Quiet Beauty
Take a moment to step outside, breathe in the crisp air, and take in the quiet beauty of November. Notice how the trees stand bare, preparing for winter’s rest, and let that remind you of the Crone’s message. Let go of what is no longer needed, make space for quiet wisdom, and embrace this season as an invitation to grow.
How will you embrace the season of the crone in your own life?
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In the Wheel of the Year August 1st is the sabbat holiday of Lughnasadh, named for the Celtic Sun God, Lugh. August 1 is also known as Lammas, an Anglo Saxon tradition celebrating the first grain harvest of the growing season. Modern pagan groups including Wiccan and practicing witches often observe both of these ancient traditions, melding elements from each into a modern day Lughnasadh celebrations.
A History of Lughnasadh
Lughnasadh is named after Lugh, a prominent figure from Irish mythology. Because ancient Celtic people did not have written history, much of Irish mythology is interpreted through the writings of Romans and later on, Christian monks. The Roman emperor, Julius Caesar likened Lugh to the Roman deity Mercury and as such Lugh is considered a warrior and portrayed as the god of craftsmanship, including blacksmithing and wheel making.
One version of the origins of Lughnasadh is that Lugh wanted to throw a festival to honor his foster mother Tailtiu, who died of exhaustion from clearing the plains in Ireland for agriculture. The other origin story is that Lughnasadh was a celebration of Lugh’s marriage. The festival coincided with the first grain harvest of the growing season. Grains like wheat, barley, oats and corn were vital for surviving the long cold winters of the Northern Hemisphere. So it makes sense that the first harvest of grain was a cause for celebration, with or without the Irish Sun God. On August 1 grain would be harvested in the dawn hours and by evening it was baked into a loaf of bread to be shared by the community.
A History of Lammas
Like Yule, Imbolc and Ostara, in certain parts of Europe the ancient celebration of Lughnasadh and the first grain harvest was melded with Christianity during the early middle ages, as the influence of the Christian church spread. Early Christians would take the first loaf of bread from the harvest to the local church and be blessed by a priest, leading to the Old English term Hlaf Maesse, or Loaf Mass, which is where the term Lammas comes from.
Lughnasadh Symbols & Elements
As part of the Wheel of the Year, Lughnasadh is associated with symbols of mid and late summer. Sunflowers, sheaves of grain, and harvest tools such as scythes are all symbolize Lughnasadh. Colors associated with Lughnasadh are drawn largely from nature, including bold shades of yellow, bright greens and orange. Stones associated with Lughnasadh include citrine, peridot, carnelian, gold topaz, clear quartz, and amber.
Celebrating Lughnasadh Today
Lughnasadh, and later on Lammas, are both forerunners of the modern county agricultural fairs and festivals. They are more like seasons than a specific holiday or event such as Litha and the Summer Solstice or Mabon and the Autumn Equinox. Thinking about Lughnasadh in this way takes the pressure off of doing one specific celebration on August 1. You can spread out the fun through the month, or celebrate when it works for your schedule.
There are many ways to celebrate Lughnasadh today. Baking bread and sharing with others is a popular way to honor the traditional grain celebration, giving thanks for the abundance in your life. If you’re not a baker or just don’t have the time, there is nothing wrong with using a store-bought loaf of bread instead. Remember the Wheel of the Year isn’t about doing things perfectly; the true magick comes from the intentions you set forth as you practice and celebrate.
Another way to celebrate Lughnasadh on a more personal note is by decorating an altar with Lughnasadh symbols, colors and elements. Taking time to set up your altar and then spending time in meditation offers a way to connect with your inner spirit and take stock of what you have and think about what you’d like to invite into your life. It is also just a great way to slow down from the hustle and bustle of everyday life.
Gathering with friends and families for a Lughnasadh potluck is also a fun way to celebrate the high point of summer. Along with freshly baked bread, other popular Lughnasadh foods include blackberries, early apples, corn, grains like quinoa, oats or barley and wine and beer. Again, if you are not into spending a day in the kitchen cooking, pick up some premade items from the grocery store. I love incorporating items I don’t usually buy during the rest of the year into my Lughnasadh dinners such as hearty artisan bread from a local bakery, locally made beers from a small batch brewery and rich wines flavored with late summer fruits. These simple items are an easy way to elevate a regular dinner into something special. Grab the Free Lughnasadh Celebration Guide in the Mabon House Members Library.