The Season of The Crone - Finding Peace Within
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This time of year is one of my favorites. Even as a child I enjoyed daylight savings and the shorter days. Even then, I felt like I had permission from Mother Nature to slow down and cozy up inside. As an adult, it seems as though life never slows down. Or rather capitalism never slows down. I still try my hardest to follow nature’s lead and slow down as much as possible as we move closer to the long winter months.
I think that November, with its crisp air and quiet beauty, is a season deeply connected to the wisdom of the Crone, the third aspect of the Triple Goddess. This sacred archetype represents the wisdom of age, the mystery of endings, and the beauty in letting go. Through the phases of the moon and seasons of the year, the Triple Goddess—Maiden, Mother, and Crone—guides us to reflect, grow, and embrace each stage of life.
The Triple Goddess and the Phases of the Moon
The Triple Goddess is an ancient symbol of feminine energy, representing the Maiden, Mother, and Crone. Each phase reflects a distinct time in a woman’s life and offers a framework for self-growth and spiritual connection. Mirroring the moon’s cycle, these archetypes help us explore our own journey and recognize that life, like the moon, moves in natural cycles of beginning, growth, and release. Read more about connecting with the moon.
The Maiden (New Moon to Waxing Moon): Youth, new beginnings, curiosity, and discovery.
The Mother (Full Moon): Abundance, creativity, nurturing, and fulfillment.
The Crone (Waning Moon to New Moon): Wisdom, transformation, endings, and preparation for renewal.
The Seasonal Reflection of the Triple Goddess
Each season offers a unique opportunity to connect with these archetypes:
Spring to Summer: The Maiden – This is a season of growth and new possibilities, like the young shoots that emerge in the spring.
Summer to Autumn: The Mother – A time of abundance and harvest, mirroring the fullness of life and creation.
Late Autumn to Winter: The Crone – The final stage, a time of rest, reflection, and quiet wisdom. As the days grow shorter and colder, we enter the season of the Crone, a time to turn inward and prepare for new beginnings.
You may also enjoy this book: Maiden, Mother, Crone: The Myth & Reality of the Triple Goddess
November: A Natural Time to Embrace the Crone’s Energy
November, with its bare trees and shorter days, aligns perfectly with the wisdom of the Crone. Nature mirrors the Crone’s lessons as plants release their seeds, animals prepare for winter, and everything slows down. We can feel this cycle within ourselves—a time to rest, reflect, and prepare for a new season.
The Crone’s energy invites us to:
Reflect on the past year, honoring what we’ve achieved and learned.
Let go of old habits, relationships, or expectations that no longer serve us.
Embrace a deeper wisdom, one that recognizes the beauty in endings and transformation.
Embracing the Crone in Your Own Life
How can we connect with the Crone’s energy in practical ways? Here are a few ideas to make the most of November’s quiet wisdom.
1. Practice Introspection
November invites us to go inward, to spend time in quiet reflection. Consider journaling or meditating to connect with your inner self and release thoughts that no longer serve you. Set aside a quiet space where you can be alone with your thoughts.
These beautiful journals are part of my own daily reflection.
2. Release and Let Go
Just as the trees release their leaves, the Crone teaches us to let go. This can mean releasing old habits, beliefs, or even people who no longer fit in your life. Ask yourself: what can I let go of to make space for new growth?
3. Nurture Yourself with Simple Self-Care
Embracing the Crone is also about acknowledging the need for warmth, rest, and grounding activities. Take a gentle walk outdoors and notice the beauty in November’s quiet landscape. Enjoy a warm drink, create something with your hands, or just take time to relax.
The Crone’s Wisdom: Recognizing the Cycles of Life
The wisdom of the Crone isn’t just about age or experience; it’s a reminder that all of life moves in cycles. Nature, the moon, and even our own lives have times of growth and times of release. Embracing this truth can bring a sense of peace and patience, even during tough times.
The Crone’s energy encourages us to stop resisting life’s natural ebb and flow, allowing us to release expectations—whether from others or from ourselves. If something is not going as planned, this season offers a chance to let go of frustration and make peace with where you are right now.
Finding Strength in Letting Go
The Crone also reminds us that endings are not failures; they are simply part of the cycle of life. By learning to let go, we open ourselves to receive whatever may come next. As you reflect on this season, ask yourself: What do I want in my life right now? What do I need to let go of to make space for it?
The Crone’s season of endings offers an opportunity for transformation. Embrace this time to connect with your own inner wisdom, aligning with nature’s rhythm and finding strength in its cycles.
Hagitude: Imagining the Second Half of Life
Walking in November’s Quiet Beauty
Take a moment to step outside, breathe in the crisp air, and take in the quiet beauty of November. Notice how the trees stand bare, preparing for winter’s rest, and let that remind you of the Crone’s message. Let go of what is no longer needed, make space for quiet wisdom, and embrace this season as an invitation to grow.
How will you embrace the season of the crone in your own life?
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What is a Grimoire?
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A grimoire is a record of a person’s spiritual practices, magical/mystical knowledge, and personal reflections. Most often associated with witchcraft, there's no rule that says keeping a grimoire must be tied to any specific belief system. Even if you don’t consider yourself a witch, you can keep a grimoires as a way to organize your thoughts, personal growth, and explore spiritual practices in a way that resonates with you. Modern Grimoire’s can be written or digital. In some ways Mabon House serves as my grimoire - it is a mix of practical how-to knowledge, my personal reflections about my life and spiritual path.
A grimoire may be used to document your experiences with meditation, spells or prayer; track the phases of the moon and how they impact your emotions; record meaningful quotes and symbols that resonate with you; and artwork or poetry. It can also be a place to jot down affirmations, journaling prompts, or even creative ideas. The beauty of a grimoire is its flexibility—it can be tailored to suit your individual needs and interests, whether they align with traditional witchcraft or not.
The History of Grimoires
The concept of the grimoire has ancient roots. Historically, grimoires were collections of magical knowledge, often passed down through generations or closely guarded within secretive circles. They contained everything from instructions on summoning spirits to the properties of herbs and stones. Over time, the grimoire evolved from a purely functional book of magic into something much more personal and reflective of the individual witch's beliefs and practices.
Today, the grimoire is less about following a rigid set of rules and more about creating a personal narrative of your spiritual journey. In The Modern Witchcraft Spell Book, Skye Alexander describes the grimoire as an essential tool for any modern witch, emphasizing the importance of keeping detailed records of spells and their outcomes. This practice not only enhances your magical work but also helps you refine your techniques over time.
What Goes Into a Grimoire?
One of the most beautiful aspects of a grimoire is its versatility. There's no one-size-fits-all approach to creating one. Your grimoire can be as simple or as elaborate as you like, containing anything that resonates with your spiritual practice.
Here are some common elements found in many grimoires:
Spells and Rituals: The most obvious inclusion, spells and rituals are often the backbone of a grimoire. These entries might detail the steps of a spell, the ingredients needed, the timing, and the intended outcome. It’s also common to include notes on how well a spell worked or any adjustments you might make in the future.
Herbal and Crystal Lore: Many witches include information on the magical properties of herbs, crystals, and other natural elements. This might involve details on how to use these items in spells, healing, or other rituals.
Astrological Insights: The phases of the moon, planetary alignments, and other astrological events can play a significant role in magical work. Recording these events and their impact on your practice can be incredibly valuable.
Personal Reflections and Experiences: In The Modern Guide to Witchcraft Grimoire, Skye Alexander suggests including personal reflections, dreams, and symbols that hold meaning for you. This transforms the grimoire from a reference tool into a personal guide to your unique spiritual journey.
Divination Records: Whether you use tarot, runes, or another form of divination, keeping a record of your readings and their outcomes can be a useful addition to your grimoire.
Correspondences: Many grimoires include lists of correspondences—associations between colors, days of the week, deities, and other elements with specific types of magic.
Art and Symbols: Some witches choose to include illustrations, sigils, or other artistic elements in their grimoires. These can serve as visual representations of your magical work or as meditative tools.
Crafting Your Grimoire
A grimoire is not meant to be a static, unchanging record. Instead, it's a living document that evolves alongside your spiritual practice. Temperance Alden, in Year of the Witch, emphasizes the importance of making your grimoire a reflection of your personal beliefs and practices, evolving with you over time. If you have a favorite style of journal, that might be the basis for your grimoire. Or perhaps if you enjoy changing up things and customizing sections, you may want to use a binder.
There’s no right or wrong way to create a grimoire, what you include in yours is entirely up to you. Some witches prefer a simple, minimalist approach, while others might opt for a more elaborate, artistic style. Whether you choose to write in a leather-bound book, a handmade journal, or even a digital format, the most important thing is that your grimoire serves as a sacred space for your magical practice.
The Practical Side of Keeping a Grimoire
While the grimoire is often seen as a spiritual tool, there’s also a practical side to keeping one. For instance, recording your spells and their outcomes can help you track your progress and learn from your experiences. This makes your grimoire not only a record of your magical work but also a powerful tool for self-discovery and improvement.
When you write down a spell in your grimoire, you’re doing more than just preserving the details of that spell. You’re also creating a resource that you can return to later, refining your techniques based on what worked and what didn’t. This process of reflection and revision is a crucial aspect of magical practice, and it’s one of the things that make a grimoire so valuable.
This applies to other types of spiritual practice, such as meditation, manfestiations or moon activity.
In addition to tracking your spells, your grimoire can also help you organize your thoughts and ideas. Many people find that the process of writing things down helps to clarify their thinking and deepen their understanding of their spiritual path. This makes the grimoire not only a record of your work but also a powerful tool for learning and growth.
A grimoire serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of intention. By carefully crafting your grimoire and filling it with the things that are most meaningful to you, you’re setting a powerful intention for your spiritual path. This intention can help to focus your energy and enhance the effectiveness of your spells and rituals.
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