The Season of The Crone - Finding Peace Within
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This time of year is one of my favorites. Even as a child I enjoyed daylight savings and the shorter days. Even then, I felt like I had permission from Mother Nature to slow down and cozy up inside. As an adult, it seems as though life never slows down. Or rather capitalism never slows down. I still try my hardest to follow nature’s lead and slow down as much as possible as we move closer to the long winter months.
I think that November, with its crisp air and quiet beauty, is a season deeply connected to the wisdom of the Crone, the third aspect of the Triple Goddess. This sacred archetype represents the wisdom of age, the mystery of endings, and the beauty in letting go. Through the phases of the moon and seasons of the year, the Triple Goddess—Maiden, Mother, and Crone—guides us to reflect, grow, and embrace each stage of life.
The Triple Goddess and the Phases of the Moon
The Triple Goddess is an ancient symbol of feminine energy, representing the Maiden, Mother, and Crone. Each phase reflects a distinct time in a woman’s life and offers a framework for self-growth and spiritual connection. Mirroring the moon’s cycle, these archetypes help us explore our own journey and recognize that life, like the moon, moves in natural cycles of beginning, growth, and release. Read more about connecting with the moon.
The Maiden (New Moon to Waxing Moon): Youth, new beginnings, curiosity, and discovery.
The Mother (Full Moon): Abundance, creativity, nurturing, and fulfillment.
The Crone (Waning Moon to New Moon): Wisdom, transformation, endings, and preparation for renewal.
The Seasonal Reflection of the Triple Goddess
Each season offers a unique opportunity to connect with these archetypes:
Spring to Summer: The Maiden – This is a season of growth and new possibilities, like the young shoots that emerge in the spring.
Summer to Autumn: The Mother – A time of abundance and harvest, mirroring the fullness of life and creation.
Late Autumn to Winter: The Crone – The final stage, a time of rest, reflection, and quiet wisdom. As the days grow shorter and colder, we enter the season of the Crone, a time to turn inward and prepare for new beginnings.
You may also enjoy this book: Maiden, Mother, Crone: The Myth & Reality of the Triple Goddess
November: A Natural Time to Embrace the Crone’s Energy
November, with its bare trees and shorter days, aligns perfectly with the wisdom of the Crone. Nature mirrors the Crone’s lessons as plants release their seeds, animals prepare for winter, and everything slows down. We can feel this cycle within ourselves—a time to rest, reflect, and prepare for a new season.
The Crone’s energy invites us to:
Reflect on the past year, honoring what we’ve achieved and learned.
Let go of old habits, relationships, or expectations that no longer serve us.
Embrace a deeper wisdom, one that recognizes the beauty in endings and transformation.
Embracing the Crone in Your Own Life
How can we connect with the Crone’s energy in practical ways? Here are a few ideas to make the most of November’s quiet wisdom.
1. Practice Introspection
November invites us to go inward, to spend time in quiet reflection. Consider journaling or meditating to connect with your inner self and release thoughts that no longer serve you. Set aside a quiet space where you can be alone with your thoughts.
These beautiful journals are part of my own daily reflection.
2. Release and Let Go
Just as the trees release their leaves, the Crone teaches us to let go. This can mean releasing old habits, beliefs, or even people who no longer fit in your life. Ask yourself: what can I let go of to make space for new growth?
3. Nurture Yourself with Simple Self-Care
Embracing the Crone is also about acknowledging the need for warmth, rest, and grounding activities. Take a gentle walk outdoors and notice the beauty in November’s quiet landscape. Enjoy a warm drink, create something with your hands, or just take time to relax.
The Crone’s Wisdom: Recognizing the Cycles of Life
The wisdom of the Crone isn’t just about age or experience; it’s a reminder that all of life moves in cycles. Nature, the moon, and even our own lives have times of growth and times of release. Embracing this truth can bring a sense of peace and patience, even during tough times.
The Crone’s energy encourages us to stop resisting life’s natural ebb and flow, allowing us to release expectations—whether from others or from ourselves. If something is not going as planned, this season offers a chance to let go of frustration and make peace with where you are right now.
Finding Strength in Letting Go
The Crone also reminds us that endings are not failures; they are simply part of the cycle of life. By learning to let go, we open ourselves to receive whatever may come next. As you reflect on this season, ask yourself: What do I want in my life right now? What do I need to let go of to make space for it?
The Crone’s season of endings offers an opportunity for transformation. Embrace this time to connect with your own inner wisdom, aligning with nature’s rhythm and finding strength in its cycles.
Hagitude: Imagining the Second Half of Life
Walking in November’s Quiet Beauty
Take a moment to step outside, breathe in the crisp air, and take in the quiet beauty of November. Notice how the trees stand bare, preparing for winter’s rest, and let that remind you of the Crone’s message. Let go of what is no longer needed, make space for quiet wisdom, and embrace this season as an invitation to grow.
How will you embrace the season of the crone in your own life?
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How to Host a Dumb Supper
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Often associated with Samhain or Halloween, a "Dumb Supper" is an old tradition with European roots. It involves setting a place at the dinner table for the spirits of the deceased and observing a silent (aka Dumb) meal in their honor. A Dumb Supper can be a solo activity or you can invite friends and family to join. A Dumb Supper is intended to be a celebration of life, similar to the idea of Day of the Dead, when people honor their loved ones who have passed on with festivities and special foods. A Dumb Supper is an easy and simple ritual to do at home, as part of your Wheel of the Year journey.
The History of a “Dumb Supper”
There are a few theories of where and when the concept of a Dumb Supper originated. Some credit the Dumb Supper as an 19th century Appalachian tradition, while others claim it was born out of British love traditions, dating as far back as the 17th century. Early versions were usually centered around young women who would host a “Dumb Supper” as a way to find out who they would marry. There were various customs around hosting a Dumb Supper, including serving everything backwards and eating the meal at midnight.
This association between Halloween and love divination continued into the early 20th century. It was common to send a loved one a Halloween card, in the same way we might send Valentine’s Day cards today. The appeal of a Dumb Supper at Halloween also fits into the Victorian/Edwardian fascination with the occult that swept through Western Europe and the United States at the turn of the 20th century.
Dumb Supper’s eventually faded away as a tradition during the mid-20th century. More recently the custom as been revived by neo pagans as part of Samhain celebrations. Rather than a focus on love divination, the modern Dumb Supper is more in spirit of the Day of the Dead Celebrations of Latin America. Spirits of loved ones who have passed on are invited to the dinner, as a way to honor them and celebrate their life.
How to Host a Dumb Supper
Like many Wheel of the Year traditions, there is no right or wrong way to host a dumb supper. It can be a solo activity or you can host a gathering of friends and family to participate. It can be as simple or as elaborate as you wish to make it.
Here is a general guide for hosting a simple Dumb Supper that doesn’t require a lot of prep time or special items.
Decide on a date for your Dumb Supper. Traditionally, it's held on Halloween night or during the Samhain festival. Choose a quiet, dimly lit location, such as your dining room or outdoors in a peaceful garden. Arrange a table with a single place setting for each spirit you wish to invite. Place a candle at each setting.
Invite the spirits you wish to communicate with. You can do this through a simple spoken invitation or by writing their names on slips of paper and placing them under the appropriate plates.
Cook a simple meal with foods that were meaningful to your deceased loved ones or are associated with the season, such as apples, bread, and root vegetables. This book has some great Samhain-inspired recipes.
Before starting the meal, invite the spirits to join you in your own words or with a traditional invocation. Express your love and respect for them and invite them to communicate with you if they wish.
Sit down at the table and start the meal. Serve each guest, whether in person or in spirit. Eat in silence and contemplate the memories and presence of the spirits you've invited.
After the meal, leave the room. If there are more than one person at the Dumb Supper, each person should leave the room one at a time.
Let the candle burn itself out. (But also keep an eye on it, for safety).
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The Thinning of the Veil Explained: Samhain, Halloween, and Day of the Dead Rituals
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As the days grow shorter and the air turns crisp, many spiritual traditions recognize a time known as the Thinning of the Veil. This concept is central to festivals like Samhain, Halloween, and the Day of the Dead, where it's believed that the boundary between the world of the living and the world of spirits becomes thinner. This blog will explore what the thinning of the veil means, how it connects with these celebrations, and offer ways you can honor this time.
What is the Thinning of the Veil in Samhain and Halloween Traditions?
The Thinning of the Veil refers to the belief that during certain times of the year—especially in late October and early November—the division between the physical world and the spiritual realm weakens. This allows spirits, ancestors, and other supernatural energies to come closer, offering an opportunity for reflection, communication, and connection. This concept is particularly associated with nature-based spiritual practices, such as Paganism and Wicca, and aligns with the seasonal transition from autumn to winter.
The veil's thinning is a powerful symbol for many people, representing a time to pause and honor the cycles of life and death. It’s believed that during this period, it's easier to communicate with ancestors and receive messages from the spirit world. The concept ties closely to ancient cultures that followed the rhythms of the natural world, recognizing this seasonal shift as a time of spiritual reflection.
Samhain and the Thinning of the Veil: How to Connect with Spirits
Samhain (pronounced “sow-in”) is an ancient Celtic festival that marks the end of the harvest season and the beginning of winter. Celebrated on October 31st and November 1st, Samhain is one of the most important holidays in the Wheel of the Year. It’s during Samhain that the veil is believed to be at its thinnest, making it a prime time for communicating with spirits and honoring ancestors.
Many people light candles to guide the spirits of loved ones back to visit, while others set up ancestor altars with photographs, mementos, or offerings like food and drink. This quiet reflection is a way to show respect for the past while acknowledging the ongoing cycle of life and death. Rituals during Samhain often include tarot readings, divination, and meditative practices to connect more deeply with the spiritual realm. It’s also a time to look back on the lessons of the past year and prepare for the darker months ahead.
Halloween’s Connection to the Thinning of the Veil
While Halloween is known today for costumes, candy, and spooky decorations, its origins lie in the thinning veil traditions of Samhain. In ancient times, people wore costumes not just for fun, but to protect themselves from wandering spirits that could cross into the physical world during this time. The idea was to either blend in with the spirits or scare away mischievous beings.
Even as Halloween has become more commercialized, its roots in the thinning veil concept remain. From ghost stories to haunted houses, Halloween still taps into our collective fascination with the unknown and unseen. The holiday continues to reflect the ancient belief that spirits roam freely when the veil is thin, and the emphasis on honoring the dead and supernatural energy is still present in Halloween’s traditions, even in a lighter, more playful form.
Day of the Dead and the Thinning of the Veil: Honoring Loved Ones
The Day of the Dead (Día de los Muertos) is a celebration held in Mexico and parts of Latin America from November 1st to 2nd. Like Samhain and Halloween, it reflects the concept of the thinning veil. However, the Day of the Dead is more joyful, focusing on honoring loved ones who have passed in a celebration of life and death. During these two days, it’s believed that the spirits of the dead return to visit the living, and families prepare to welcome them with beautifully decorated altars, or **ofrendas**.
These altars feature photos of loved ones, flowers (especially marigolds), and offerings of food, drink, and items that the deceased enjoyed in life. The thinning of the veil allows for this brief reunion, where the living can connect with those they have lost. The Day of the Dead differs from Samhain in its celebratory tone, but both traditions view the thinning veil as a time for reflection, remembrance, and honoring the dead.
Honoring the Thinning of the Veil in Your Spiritual Practice
You don’t need to follow any particular tradition to honor the thinning of the veil in your own way. Whether you’re drawn to the reflective practices of Samhain, the playful energy of Halloween, or the colorful celebrations of the Day of the Dead, this time of year offers an opportunity to connect with the past and the spirit world. Here are a few ideas to incorporate into your personal spiritual practice:
Create an Ancestor Altar: This is a simple and meaningful way to honor those who have passed. Light candles, place a photo of a loved one, or offer a small item that reminds you of them. Take a few moments each day to reflect on their impact on your life.
Practice Meditation or Divination: With the veil thinner, many believe intuitive insights come more easily. Try meditating or using tarot cards, runes, or another form of divination to connect with the spiritual realm and seek guidance.
Leave Offerings: Similar to the Day of the Dead’s ofrendas, you can leave small offerings for spirits or ancestors. Food, drink, or flowers are traditional choices, and they symbolize your respect and recognition of the connection between worlds.
Host a Dumb Supper: Whether you’re celebrating with a fun costume party or a more serious spiritual gathering, Halloween and Samhain offer many opportunities to engage with the thinning veil. Remember, even modern traditions often carry echoes of ancient spiritual practices.
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The Thinning of the Veil is a time of powerful reflection and spiritual connection, spanning multiple cultures and traditions. From the quiet introspection of Samhain to the lively celebrations of the Day of the Dead, this period reminds us of the ongoing cycle of life and death, and offers a chance to honor our ancestors. Whether you follow the rituals of Samhain, Halloween, or the Day of the Dead—or create your own traditions—this season allows for a deep connection with both the past and the unseen world around us.
Take this time to reflect, honor those who have passed, and embrace the mystery of the spirit world while the veil is thin.
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